Sleep positions speak volumes about relationship.The body language in bed could be a telling indicator of your emotional status in a relationship.[3Q3S8VKMSBJY]
Let us see some of the main sleep positions and their meaning. If you and your partner lie, having your backs facing each other in bed, then these might just be more than mere sleeping positions.
Very cuddled up, with your legs entwined and the erogenous zones snuggled into each other. The meaning: There is loads of passion and sensuality, and you are probably in the honeymoon phase.
The Spoons (him behind)
Both lying on your sides, you showing your back to him. The meaning: He is protective of you. Beware if you never touch in this sleep position, it may become platonic.
The Spoons (her behind)
Both lying on your sides, he showing his back to you. The meaning: You are very nurturing and the backbone of the relationship. He is willing to let go of responsibilities and you being his emotional anchor.
Poles Apart
Your backs face each other. The meaning: The intimacy is breaking down and you may be too independent of each other. If that suits you both then that's okay, as long as you have intimacy, But be careful in not using this position to shut each other out.
Pushed Out
One sprawls in a starfish shape, the other faces away, clinging to the edge of the bed. The meaning: The sprawler dominates your relationship and they might be selfish and unaware of their partner's needs. If you are the one pushed out,ensure you start asserting yourself during the day.
Need You
One lies on their back, the other is cradled in the crook of their arm cuddled up to them. The meaning: The partner on their back provides emotional strength and is happy offering emotional support to the other partner who is more needy.
Mixed Messages
One lies tucked up in the foetal position, facing the other who is flat on his/her back. The meaning: The one in the foetal position needs comfort but feels unable to express their needs to their partner, who is oblivious to their needs.
Identify what is going wrong and start talking about it.
Let us see some of the main sleep positions and their meaning. If you and your partner lie, having your backs facing each other in bed, then these might just be more than mere sleeping positions.
Full of Lust.
The Spoons (him behind)
Both lying on your sides, you showing your back to him. The meaning: He is protective of you. Beware if you never touch in this sleep position, it may become platonic.
The Spoons (her behind)
Both lying on your sides, he showing his back to you. The meaning: You are very nurturing and the backbone of the relationship. He is willing to let go of responsibilities and you being his emotional anchor.
Poles Apart
Your backs face each other. The meaning: The intimacy is breaking down and you may be too independent of each other. If that suits you both then that's okay, as long as you have intimacy, But be careful in not using this position to shut each other out.Submissive
One lies on their stomach, their fingertips reaching out to their partner who lies on their back or side.
The meaning: The partner reaching out is submissive in the relationship - the power lies with the other partner.
Pushed Out
One sprawls in a starfish shape, the other faces away, clinging to the edge of the bed. The meaning: The sprawler dominates your relationship and they might be selfish and unaware of their partner's needs. If you are the one pushed out,ensure you start asserting yourself during the day.
One lies on their back, the other is cradled in the crook of their arm cuddled up to them. The meaning: The partner on their back provides emotional strength and is happy offering emotional support to the other partner who is more needy.
Mixed Messages
One lies tucked up in the foetal position, facing the other who is flat on his/her back. The meaning: The one in the foetal position needs comfort but feels unable to express their needs to their partner, who is oblivious to their needs.
Identify what is going wrong and start talking about it.
Raghu Natrajan
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