n the first few months into your marriage,[3Q3S8VKMSBJY] it is very likely that you won’t know your husband’s family that well. This fact makes you nervous, enhanced when your are conscious of the fact that you’re and going to live with a houseful of strangers.
It is worth to make that extra effort to connect with them. It will help you make friends with his parents, and at the same time a world of good for your relationship.
The effort you take,in case your live separately,will be appreciated more by your husband realising the fact that you’re making an effort to keep his parents happy. So,try these tips:
Accompany your mother-in-law when she goes out.
If his mom wants to go shopping and there’s nobody to take her, you drive her and spend a day of shopping with her. She’ll appreciate the gesture. You can exchange and converge over clothes and shoes - or vegetables and spices. Chances are if your tastes match, it could be the beginning for a happy relationship.
Be in touch often.
If you are living separately, call his parents every now and then.Ask how they are doing,and whether they need your help.They will appreciate you for the care.
Spend Time together
Spend time with your in-laws,on occasions like birthdays,anniversaries etc., Having casual lunches and dinners together will also be appreciated.Try to make yourself a part of his family.
Be the first to help
If someone is not well,spend the day/afternoon with them. Take them to the doctor, for
medical tests.If your mother-in-law is out of town,invite your father-in-law for meals.
A little effort is all that it takes to stay connected with his family.
It is worth to make that extra effort to connect with them. It will help you make friends with his parents, and at the same time a world of good for your relationship.
The effort you take,in case your live separately,will be appreciated more by your husband realising the fact that you’re making an effort to keep his parents happy. So,try these tips:
Accompany your mother-in-law when she goes out.
If his mom wants to go shopping and there’s nobody to take her, you drive her and spend a day of shopping with her. She’ll appreciate the gesture. You can exchange and converge over clothes and shoes - or vegetables and spices. Chances are if your tastes match, it could be the beginning for a happy relationship.
Be in touch often.
If you are living separately, call his parents every now and then.Ask how they are doing,and whether they need your help.They will appreciate you for the care.
Spend time with your in-laws,on occasions like birthdays,anniversaries etc., Having casual lunches and dinners together will also be appreciated.Try to make yourself a part of his family.
Be the first to help
If someone is not well,spend the day/afternoon with them. Take them to the doctor, for
medical tests.If your mother-in-law is out of town,invite your father-in-law for meals.
A little effort is all that it takes to stay connected with his family.
Raghu Natrajan
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